When “Just Have Fun Trying” Isn’t Helpful - IVF, Loss and What to Say (Or Not to Say)

IVF is more than just a medical process, it’s an emotional, physical, and financial rollercoaster. Between hormone injections, loss, and the loneliness of waiting, well-meaning comments like “Just relax and have fun trying” can feel like salt in the wound. In this post, I explore the real impact of fertility struggles, how to respond to unhelpful advice, and book recommendations to help you feel less alone. Whether you’re navigating infertility, pregnancy after loss, or just trying to stay afloat in the chaos, this post is for you.