How To Handle In-Laws, Grandparents, and Unsolicited Parenting Advice
Unsolicited parenting advice, especially from in-laws or grandparents, can feel overwhelming, even when it comes from a place of love. Whether you're a new parent or deep in the toddler trenches, navigating these moments without losing your cool (or your confidence) is possible. This post offers practical scripts, boundary-setting tips, and reminders that you're not doing it wrong, you're just doing it your way. Learn how to trust your instincts, build a support system, and stay grounded when the opinions start flying.
Summer is Not Always Sweet: When the Season Feels Like Too Much
Summer with kids isn’t always carefree—especially for new parents or families juggling multiple ages and schedules. In this post, we explore the overstimulation, pressure, and exhaustion that can come with the season. If you're navigating postpartum, parenting burnout, or just trying to survive the chaos of summer break, this is your reminder that it’s okay to slow down and protect your peace.
What If I Snap? (And Other Thoughts You’re Afraid to Say Out Loud)
Ever had a thought so strange or disturbing it made you question your sanity? You’re not alone. Intrusive thoughts, fleeting, unwanted, and often distressing, are more common than you think. Whether it’s a sudden image of driving off a cliff or fears about accidentally harming your baby, these thoughts do not define you. In this post, I break down what intrusive thoughts really are, why they happen, and how to take away their power through mindfulness, externalization, and self-compassion. You are not your thoughts, and you’re not going crazy.
Postpartum Isn’t All Joy — And That’s Okay
Postpartum emotions are complex and you don’t have to navigate them alone. This blog explores the emotional highs and lows of new parenthood, including postpartum depression, anxiety, and intrusive thoughts. Learn how these experiences affect all kinds of families, including dads, LGBTQ+ parents, and adoptive families, and discover signs it might be time to reach out for support. Real talk, realistic self-care, and local resources inside.
Wants Nothing Time: A Mindful Pause for Parents and People
What if quality time wasn’t just something we gave to others—but a gift we offered ourselves? This post explores “Wants Nothing” time, a mindful practice for slowing down, reconnecting with yourself, and finding calm amidst the chaos of parenting, anxiety, and daily life.
Meet Your Therapist: Anxiety & Perinatal Mental Health Support in California
Hi! I’m Dana — an anxiety and perinatal therapist based in Petaluma. This post is a little intro to me, my approach, and what brought me here. If you’re a tired parent, a person with a racing mind, or just someone trying to keep it together, you’re in the right place.